Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, who was one of the big names who walked against domestic violence alongside Ooni of Ife’s partner, had something to say in regards to abusive behavior at home when met by GoldmyneTV while on the walk.
As per Tonto Dikeh whose marriage to her ex, Olakunle Churchill ended on grounds of domestic violence in the midst of different claims, said there is no reason under the substance of the earth that God has made, for a man to lay his hand on his lady.
“I think the one issue that actually births the high rate of domestic violence is the fact that we are not talking about it enough. It is the fact that the society is shaming us when we talk about it. So we rather not talk about it, we rather keep it on a hush hush until it is worse.
This awareness will create so many…I am sure a lot of men now will be scared to beat their wives now because this awareness is no joke, there are heavyweights here. It is not about ridiculing men like I always say. It is to make us a better person. It is to make our homes better.
Nobody is saying run out of your homes. I am not preaching divorce. I am preaching that you speak out. because your life matters. Your children’s lives matter and your husband’s life matters.
I don’t think there is any excuse under the face of the earth that God has created that a man should put a hand on his woman. No! There are other options. You can walk away. You can calm down. You can go for therapy. There is so many options than hitting a woman”.